((Kanga)), I have no advice. The addict in my family is my son. I am sorry that you are having such a rough time. There are people with relationships similar to yours who will share their experiences and wisdom. I will offer my prayers to lift and strengthen you.
The sad truth is that I have heard that NA meetings in our area are a great connection for drugs. Dealers and pushers are there to find customers, people who are trying to escape the grip of addiction yet still weak and craving. So as good as the program is . . . it can attract the wrong people for the wrong reasons.
Just wondering . . . What will happen to YOU if your bf flunks his UA and goes to jail?
Please continue to share. Support is on the way.