Ok Chero time to get out the big guns.
What the he** you thinking?
Do you really like living with a drunk controlling your life?
I think you must.
We talk about the definition of insanity in Alanon.
“Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results”
He seems to have you wrapped his finger.
I mean come on now, “I hurt my widdle lip. What should I do”
As I told you before, unless he is sober for a year why even talk about seeing him?
Give him the number to AA and tell him to grow up.
Get to a Alanon meeting Chero, and stop being the cheese to his wine.