Originally Posted by chero
What if this time is THE time.
If this is THE time, he won't need you to come over and "brainstorm" about what to do. If this is THE time, he will get on the Internet and find the closest meetings. If this is THE time, he will decide that he can't do it anymore and he won't do it anymore. If this is THE time, he will go forward whether you are there or not.
Right?
Actions not words.
There is plenty of time for you to stay back and watch his actions from afar. As my doc would tell me, if he's still calling
you trying to prove to
you that he's serious this time, then how on earth could he be giving it his best and being serious about recovery? My doc would continue to say that he is still making this about getting you back where he wants you, not about genuine recovery.
Have you started your therapy yet? If nothing else, my doc gives me great perspective. Once I see the other side of the coin, I feel much better.
(((Chero)))