just wanted imput
my Ah is in rehab
I declined to go see him or go to the family meeting but his sister went............anyhow tonight she tells me that AH asked her to sneak in some instant coffe and to bring him a different brand of cigerettes
She just brought a carton of his brand today..........but I think he told her hes been smoking alot or something yet when I spoke to him day before yesterday he told me he didnt need cigs at the family visit he could wait till Sun for the visit...........
Whats up with this? Do you think hes trading these things for other things? And really how Honest and committed to getting help is he if all hes worried about is trying to get her to break the rules or trying to get different kinds of cigs? Plus if the program resticts the caffeine intake isnt it pointless to try to go around it, dont they have rules for a reason?
I guess I really shouldnt worry about it yet It makes me angry............