good morning, i think its a bad sign when work begins to suck as soon as you walk in the door - oh well at least i'm getting paid for this crap. hope everyone has a good day. and kj, i TOTALLY agree with you about the 4yr old being told his dads a drug addict - that is just way to young - i've bent over backwards for years to protect my children from that horrible truth so they could enjoy their childhoods, and love their father without worrying about him, when the time is right and their older then i'll explain it all to them - but not at 4 - come on!!