thank you everyone. I know one thing, a meeting tonite...I am going to sit with her and discuss how I FEEL...She went to my mom's and said I was still upset about Keith so I was taking it out on her. NOOOO...I"m sick of the chaos, wet towels on my floor, dirty shower, and no space for myself. I appreciate everyones comments and will be setting boundaries today as to what is and is not acceptable. I truly am losing it with her....thanx