sometimes adult kids seem to think its ok to take advangage of their parents, even the sober ones. i think its up to you to enforce the set boundaries. trust me, as long as you continue to allow her to do these things, she will. glad she is clean and hope she continues down that path but sometimes clean don't mean all the way sober. sometimes it takes a little more time for the behavior to change and when its effecting you, you may just have to help her along by doing what is best for you. still praying for the both of you