Teke, now you sound like me earlier. I told my mom I wanted to go buy a pint of jack daniels and drink it all until I was asleep and felt nothing. Then I realized I couldnt believe I was saying that. Seems I fall apart everytime MIL or SIL says anything about AH.
Ill be honest I dont l;ike them knowing more than me!!!!
Teke, its not that you and the kids arent important to your AH its that the others are enabling him and thats what hes looking for right now. When I think clearly I know my AH went to his sisters for food, pity and phone. Yours is using them the same and they use each other for validation too