Gods Will.......that one used to baffle me. How can I know what Gods Will for me is, and am I doing it ?
I though His Will for me would be something like doing missionary work in zambawa, or becoming a monk.
But, more is to be revealed. One day, out of the blue, I had this though. "Maybe Gods Will for me is simply staying sober, helping other drunks, and raising my two teenage daughters...."
I know when I wake up in the morning, and DON"T do my daily meditation and prayer, my day usually goes pretty bad. I guess if it's my idea, and I have an specific expectation of the outcome (especially in matters that don't concern things directly in my control), it's self will. Read the part of the Big Book about the director and the play.
So as fas as a specific example, I can't answer. Hopefully I did in general.