Originally Posted by
cinderellawkids 
and I allowed it
You know, Cinder, that is what finally did me in. All of the heartache in my life came to me because I allowed it. I never hated him. I pitied him. In many, many ways I still loved him. But I hated my life, and I had nobody to blame but myself for allowing it to continue.
The last 6 months have been my happiest in decades. The decision to divorce was hard, but living like that was harder. When I was ready....I knew. When you are ready....when you've had enough.....you'll know too.
Hang in there, Girlfriend.
Babs