thanks anvil, thank god, but i'm not that worried today or for now, just thought i'd ask about it because of what cindi and her mil are doing for their two. i know that i probably wouldn't try that if could, seems to be too much involved for me, i've already got enough going on without his junk. i'm just sorry that he's digging such a bigger hole for himself to have to climb out of.
i think i've come a ways over the yrs, my prayers today is for him to get it right for him and not anymore for us and the marriage. does that make sense