Anvil, I truly believe BIL only wanted help hoping to move back in with his sister or mom, and they told him flat out that wasnt gonna happen this time. He always goes to detox when he's homeless and they always have taken him in. For his sake Im glad they will not this time. Actually AH always said they were killing him when they did, so I cant imagine where his pride is feeling now. But not my problem.
I got thinking about it and does he really think Im going to leave him to die in my home? Come on, not gonna happen. When he was on probation and running from warrants I always had him picked up eventually, when it was obvious he wasnt gonna handle it himself and he was wrapped in the same cycle...although never this bad