Sorry I didn't respond earlier.
I will keep Barbara and your whole family in my thoughts and prayers.
This is one of those God awful decisions I would wrestle with in the past. It could very easily have been my ex driving that vehicle that hit Barbara. I don't think I ever could have forgiven myself if it had been him driving drunk and I did nothing to stop it, even by just calling the police. Thank God I don't have to wrestle with that amongst other things like it any more.