Sorry to hear what you are going through. My as has a friend that did jail time, and hasn't done drugs since. That was his wake up call. Maybe this will be your son's. I can imagine how Mrs. Lake and you feel. When my as called last night around 10:30pm and said happy Mother's Day and then said "oh, by the way", I'm getting discharged tomorrow", my heart sank. Didn't sleep well after that.