Water, water, water and lay off the V-8's (sodium= fluid retention blah, blah, blah) will help with the puffiness. Course, if you've been crying that makes your face puffy too. Cold washcloth over your eyes for that.
You asked on a post upthread if we felt sorry for you TJ? Well I don't. I
do care for you though. Keep hanging in and doing what you need to. You'll get to where to want to be. I know you will
.