Chero, I am so thankful you are safe and it is wonderful to hear that you are beginning to realize how much freedom to be yourself awaits you in a life without your AH. Someone who is ordering you to go to bed at a certain hour and ordering you when to get up is downright scarey - and dangerously abusive.
I lucked out in getting an indifferent, lazy AH for the most part. I enjoy staying up until the wee hours of the morning watching whatever I desire on t.v. Yes, the remote is MINE! I eat meals when I feel like it. I come and go as I please. The only thing that will make all my dreams come true will be having my own apartment so I can close the door and never, ever again have to be exposed to a slobbering drunk!
I am so thrilled that you have taken this step. No, we won't get tired of you. Post away!!!