Hi Redfox, I was thinkin about your pictures the other day.
You are qwesome....I know shat you mean about becoming complacent.
I found that I needed to make list, log feelings, write reasons and plans for my
life in the short term and long term, yeah, goals, just like normal people.
However, in my list were the dirty deeds of why i can't drink, no, not even one, because I knew from what I read here I would forget the reasons later...things get so good in the beginning, high, high, and low, low, both good reasons for the alkie to drink......so complacent, oh real easy to do,,,,,thats why I am in couseling, I continue to dig in my soul to find th true meaning of life alfie, joke...
We must remind ourselves daily of our short and long term goals to remind us that drinking just does'nt fit in to them.. there is so much more...
Drink, sure, and for maybe 1 hour we will feel bliss of a fake kind, don't drink, and yes we will feel bliss for the strength an courage to not...........................
Love and Hope, hope3