Hey kermit.
I can TOTALLY relate. I'm a recovering alike, and my codie wife ran off with another man. She left me with our two daughters 2 years ago.(which is a blessing BTW. Guys RARELY get the kids).
Anyway, she's out of work, and doesn't even have a phone. She did manage to call Easter and on my youngests 15th B-day, but besdies that ? No card, no gifts, etc. She hasn't seen our oldest daughter in person for 2 years.
I really start to get p***d off when I realize that when SHE had the kids, I was living on my friends breezway and sending them every dime I made.
Anyway, I don't understand either. Well, maybe I do. It's an addiciton, They put the addiction before anything else in their life. Still, it's you r freakin KIDS !!! [/rant]
All I can do is keep my side of the street clean, forgive her, and pray for her. And call my sponsor