Attending Meetings - Should you Go with Spouse or BF/GF?
My sponsor (Alanon) advised me my ABF and I should attend one meeting a week together, either Alanon or AA. His sponsor says we should not. I would like to hear pros and cons from others, where it has helped their relationship, hurt it, made you uncomfortable, etc.
Personally, I think it is weird that my ABF is set against it. I suggested we attend a meeting that neither of us goes to individually. That way both of us feel comfortable to share at other times.
Thanks for your input.