Hi Rozied
I have to agree with Mr. Rozied because it would serve no purpose for you to go there. If you're anything like this codie, you will immediately think of ways to solve his problems. This wouldn't be good for him or for you because he will not have lerned anything except that he could always depend on you when the going gets tough.
Nope, as difficult as it is, Rozied, we must remember that one day we went be around and they will have to eventually learn how to solve their own problems, just as we have had to do in our lives.
Just think how happy you're going to be when he figures everything out on his own. Better yet, just think how good this will be for his self-esteem when he does.
Hugs & Prayers to stay strong coming your way
Devastated