Glad to hear the red flags were just a reflex reaction. No one on earth could blame any one of us for not trusting 100%. Heck, even 50% :-)
Sounds like you are dealing with the good old beauracracy monster there. It's everywhere!!!! You would think they would be bit more understanding to parents who have already gone thru h*ll, but no, let's try to make it harder..... geez!
****{Hugs}}} Barb