shawn I think I smoke so much cause I am home and disabled--it has really got out of hand for me--as you know I have a tumor on my neck they are going to remove--I need to stop!!! I watched my Father die of lung disease--and even though I took care of many many patients with it as a nurse--it was different when it was MY father--a horrible way to die-or even to live--sorry for your loss.
You may be right about your partner--you are probably more strret wise than her. In the work force she will be dealing with all types of people of different ages...maybe that will help her to grow.