GO mallow Go mallow!!!---shawn listen to her--that is exactly what I would say to her....you have to decide if you want to live your life in constant mellow drama like this or move on--even if she doesn't drink...what kind of a relationship do you have? She sounds immature and you do not---do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone whose intellect is so low that her favorite passtime is drinking in bars til 3am or watching reality shows?You deserve better for yourself!
Quiting smoking is HARD!!!! I have to do it now and have no idea where to begin....Just like an alkie to hold your smoking over your head...My AS will say to me''you are a drug addict'' because I am on morphine for Lupus and Fibromyalgia,,,,big difference. Now that he is sober he no longer says these rediculous statements.......wishing you the best....