Dee,
thank you for sharing Desiderata - it's been a long time since i've read that but it sure resonated with me this morning.
Mimi,
I understand you're all torn up inside - and it hurts that he gave in so easily, telling you he wasn't happy. It's painful to let this stuff go, even the stuff that isn't working for us anymore. Prayers and love to you, hang in there, you'll come out of this stronger and feeling so much better about yourself. I know that I did when I went through it. There is light on the other side of that pain.
Rowan