Teach, as you write, I see you are already on the path of forgiving Matt.
Time will bring things to fruition. Don't beat yourself up over it.
Prayers continue for you both.
I simply told him that G*D could have taken him, just as well as Matt, but, didn't.
That G*D had a plan for him, and he has to be around for it.
And that I hoped to G*D that he would begin to see the worth he has, and the talents he has and the gifts he could bring to this world.
And I told him I loved him....
You could not have said things any better then that.
*HUG*