In the start of this whole issue a while ago LIL that is just what I posted--I feel some comfort knowing it is a disease--I had hoped it would give some comfort to others as well. Still the concept of working on you is very important as they all have the same behavior patterns that destroy us---just to know there are other ways of treating it--that is the plus side--thats what you need to know and learn about...and thank youMayhym for your reply--it just makes sense...