cinder, i'll be in and out, tonite, so hang on. i'm still trying to fix whats wrong with this program on this comp, but i'm still on line.
i'm sorry that its happening this way, what was his excuse for not allowing you to pick up the money? i'v been there so many times, i learned how to not expect anything from him and when he did show up with money, it became my extra money, still is. don't want to ever be that dependant on him again. you can make it, i pray that he follows through on what he said that he was gonna do, but if not, you'll be ok somehow.
could you have asked him to give the money to his sis? just a thought. sometimes cinder it does get worse before it gets better, do all you can to stick to your boundaries, honestly he's missing you and the kids but as long as you are having that occassional contact with the rides and all, he may think that he still has a little control at the home front. addicts just done think rationally sometimes, sometimes they just don't get it.