P.S.
junkyswife.......just curious.....how would it feel to you if you just took one week off thinking, obsessing, researching, talking, arguing, and blogging about his addiction? (or as much of that as you are able)
Do you think you could try it? You expect him to be strong, to resist his urges, and not to use, because it's not healthy for anyone. Are you willing to take this step too, to see how it feels to constantly crave and not be able to answer the craving?
Would you feel somehow less, if you did that? Is it the most interesting thing in your world right now, the only thing that deserves this much of your talents?
Just wondering.