Welcome to SR IonJames.
Imho, it's ok not to be PC here. Just say what's going on. If your words truly offend, I think people can let you know that (and why). We shouldn't be self-censoring here.
I interpreted what you said as tongue in cheek. And if I were to be offended by that comment, well, I'd be calling the "kettle black"...I've made some pretty sweeping comments about men myself!
I hope you keep reading and posting...there's lots to be learned here...it's what got me through ending my marriage to an alcoholic.
Whataboutme brings up a very good point...as sad as it may be for you, you've got to face the reality of how NOT okay it would be to have kids with this woman because of her addiction and unwillingness to get help and quit. It's hard, I know! I had to give up my dream of having children with my AH too. It wasn't easy.
Anyways, nice to meet you
