I'm not sure how imbalanced she really is tho , had her to a couple of psychs and she lies to them , specially regards to her drinking/frequency and intake. but regardless , it might enhance the drinking but nobody's gonna make a dent into her other issues untill she gets the drinking under control .
When we let the actions of others get to us, we no longer hold onto our peace.
-unfortunatly one of the reason we're in a relationship is because they get to us , they get to us despite all our problems , our issues and whatever walls we put up.