Sorry if I offended , the crazy chicks thing was mostly tongue-in-cheek, then to diffuse with humour whereever possible .
and PC ? well this is not a very PC 'disease' is it ? personally I've had enough double talk from her , I'd like to be as brutally honest about my feelings as possible - ie one of the reasons I'm here. a lot of nasty things bubbling that I can't share with her but don't want to keep to myself.
but tnx I'm working my way thru pretty much all of the post . the sad bit is how same-old same-old it is .