You are NOT wrong. You did what was right for you like everyone else said. As this disease progresses it only gets worse. And sometimes things happen that neither you nor your addict want to happen, but then it's too late. I know that the man I fell in love with who was clean & sober would NEVER have done the things he did once he relapsed. And things got worse & worse until I made the change. And I heard the same words you did. I want to do it on my own. Let's work on "our" problems. I once looked at my ex & said....."OUR" problem is your drinking & drugging....if you were clean & sober again, our problems would be easier to deal with.
And, NO, it is NOT easy. You will have a lot of emotions going on.
So, if you need to share, vent, whatever, we are here.
Lynne