Hi TexasGirl....Thanks so much for the kind welcome. I've tried to help him as best I can. But he's obviously in denial. He's a high-achieving guy who graduated from some of the best schools in the country, including West Point, where discipline rules. So I'm sure the idea of being "out of control" is very scary to him, though he'd never admit to being scared of anything. I've got a lot of reading to do...Thanks again! lola