well, my rah is also a member, though he don't come here as much as before, i don't think. he started out snooping and i've posted the same thing as you, but i decided to share sr with him. i think that he didn't exactly get want he signed on for and kind of decided that he didn't have to bother.
he have read over my shoulders too, i decided that i had nothing to hide in my post and whatever i post here is either what i need to post for me even though, sometimes he may be the topic of my post but still its about my feelings and i do have a right to those