keeping this secret
I know we have talked about this before, but I was wondering --
How many of you keep this forum a secret?
How much of a secret -- have you even mentioned that you go on a forum and post?
I have never told the abf about my posting on here. I know how he is -- his curiosity would lead him to figure out where i post, and what my name is, and then he would go over everything I have ever written. he would be mad about me talking about him because I am sure he would think that there are people who would be able to figure out who he is...Like anyone really would go to that effort -- or even needs to, everyone knows he is an addcit.
BUT, having said that, there are times when I want to tell him since I hate keeping something important secret, and there are times when I want to tell him something I learned about myself and addiction via posting and reading here, and I think these things might help the situation but I don't say anything so that he never figures out about it...
anyhow, I was just curious how other people deal with this site.