Well, I've started attending al-anon meetings...but I'm a "normie," so I personally am not in any true recovery program.
You see, for me, it was different...when she was drunk, that's when I didn't know how to interact with her - now that she's been sober for six months, she's generally an awesome person.
I know another part of it is that this WAS her first week back to work, and she has been VERY tired, as she's not used to getting up at the same time as me. But it's still just hard...she tells me "pouting doesnt' work with me" when in reality, I'm not pouting...I'm just trying to deal with MY emotions over the entire thing.