Well, the stess wasn't fun but I learned so much through it all.
None of this event had anything to do with me. I wasn't here when it happened so I don't have the guilt of not being able to stop it and I wasn't capable of getting him out of it.
And OMG, Best, can you believe I said that! I couldn't believe it! Don't know what I'll do if the situation arises but the shock on his face was worth it!