chero my friend, just like we excuse and twist the truth so it is tolerable so will he justify and project to make it acceptable.
I'm sure you have dealt with him in this condition before....yelling, acting like king kong. I hope you are okay. Consider your options....maybe you can spend the night somewhere else. You don't deserve this....not for one minute. You cannot save him. All you can do is keep the focus on yourself. What would make you feel better right now? (If you said putting laxative in his brownies then i would not think badly of you for it.....he will be making a different noise after that....haha!!) You cannot argue with him but you can keep neutral as possible.
Come here if you need to. PM some of us. My prayers are with you.