You guys are right on some things, but a small part always wishes to help..like I said I am well and I would never want to go through that again. I just wanted your thoughts..I have not contacted him since the card in march and my thought was that it would be an unselfish act, cause there is no shortage of selfish people who keep their inner beauty to themselves instead of share with those that need it. Maybe that is not a good thing when it comes to exes,addicts or inmates?...if I still harbored bad feelings about what happened than I would say that I do just want a reason to contact him, because usually one wants that person to somehow "fix" it, but I am not seeking closure of any kind so I just thought..so much for that, huh? As for his wishes..yeah..some other time.
At any rate I wanted opinions and I got them..good, bad, or indifferent. Opnions none the less!
Thanks
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