I was also told that if the cops ever got wind that my ex used in the house, I could loose my children. Oh, and my daughter was told that if they find drugs in their home, she could go to jail too, while they sorted things out. So, I guess the question is.....do you want to go to jail, do you want to lose your children or do you want to let him continue to do any darn thing he wants to with NO consequences. As long as we allow, it will continue. It's not easy to leave. But you need to think of your children. I was told to consult a domestic violence shelter, because what he is doing is putting you & your children at risk.
Lynne