Hi Cajun Girl
It sounds like you are getting tired of being wrapped up in this. It also sounds like you are balancing things on the HOPE that he will get sober for REAL. There has to be a part of you that is willing to let him go, because you are holding YOURSELF back. And the truth of the matter is, that he will get sober only when and if he is ready... whether you are there or not.
So, like Kal said, go with your feelings.
There needs to be priorities here for you and your children... And sometimes, like the saying goes "Nothing changes if nothing changes". You can begin now by making healthy changes
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Meg