Gosh Marteen there have been some good answers here! - my AD called last week and wanted to do something this weekend - she even had a gift for me I was wanting to try out ( walking pole) - no calls or e-mails yet and it's getting near dinner time - of course I never got anything special either but I would have enjoyed a store bought BBQ chicken and Greek salad in the forest hiking - lots of good memories of walks I had with her - Prepare for the worst HOPE for the BEST - I sometimes feel guilty doing that - is that normal??? Thanks again all you wise Moms who answered Marteen ((HUGS))