Well..nothing is going to change the past. But you can change the future. I dont know your situation. All you can really do is make it right the best you can. However that may be..I know it definately isn't by getting sh** face. Tomorrow is a new day my friend. What a time to start a new. It will stop hurting so bad in time. You just gotta be willing to wait it out. Thats how life is. Unfortunately. So keep leading by example and always be there. She will come around. I am sure it is hard on all of you.