Thank you so much for all your opinions!! They all really helped me. I will be happy to drive him to his meetings to help him in his recovery. I do carry all the money as well. His idea. my sanity. but he would go personally to the bank some days and withdrawl. Then just a few days before detox he got his own credit card... not good. He has it with him in detox so a little worried about his drive home alone. He is 2 hours away from home. Has a car and credit card. SCARY!!