Sometimes at meetings they give out a list of phone #'s and usually someone will offer to pick up the person and bring them. If sometimes u feel u just cant drive him ask if someone there can pick him up . Then again u might get the guilt trip that your not supporting his recovery. Its so hard u want to support but sometimes feel inconvienence of taking him. Maybe he doesnt trust himsefl to drive there or maybe he wants to show u he is going to the meetings to make u proud of him. Hard to really know.