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Old 04-02-2007, 09:39 PM
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kj21
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Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Okanagan BC
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Question helpful or co-dependant?

I have a question to ask you wise women. My BF who is my addict, asks me to drive him to his meetings. He is quite new to recovery. Gone for the second time right now. I am at the point that if he really wants to get to a meeting he will drive himself there. He is afraid he won't make it to the meeting and it would be better if I drive him. I sometimes wonder if he wants me to drive him to prove to me he went then he gets brownie points. I am becoming quite the skeptic. How sad.
Is it OK to drive him to his meetings or better to let him make it on his own? Thanks for your opinions and thoughts.
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