Ah yes I remember that all to well. When u start to detach it becomes more and more infrequent. When u feel as if your weak let it go to voicemail. Listen if u are comfortable or just delete it. How many times have we heard I didnt get that call or I never got a voicemail? Just turn it around. I'm not sure why I got like that maybe because I was happy that he actually still thought about me to call me, maybe it was because of the lie that I knew would come, or that he would want to hang out or maybe he was just going to drop the bomb and dump me finally end my misery for the love of his life which was/is crack. Not sure but I know how u feel.