welcome to sr, glad to meet you, the addict in my life is my hubby. sorry that you are hurting and i pray that all works out well for you.
there is nothing you can do about your husbands drinking and i'm really sorry/ this is not your fault, your husband has to want to stop for himself. i'm also sorry that your son's are having to go through having to drive him a round drunk. maybe soon he'll find his way, but in the meantime, maybe its time to you to focus on you and what you want your life to look like in the near future. keeping you and yours in my prayers.