Originally Posted by
wheretobegin 
I am not there yet.
Just take care of yourself, too, wherever you are. Don't completely lose you while holding on to your addict.
We all love them; letting go doesn't mean we don't love them. It is just that some of us have reached the decision that we can love them best by handing them over to God and letting Him take care of them, because we realized that nothing we have done has helped them.