Hmm, me again, just thinking while I was reading some other posts. To personally answer why I talk about my A... 1. He is still around. 2. I still love him 3. I need to forgive him because I am tired of being angry. If I can understand him, I can forgive. And if him and I can build some sort of positive relationship between him and I that we can both be healthy with then that will make forgiveness easier and make me happy. That is why I post about him. If you don't want to post about yours, don't. You don't have to. You do write whatever you need to OK? That is fine with me and I'm sure everyone else. You're right, this is about ourselves, not them. Just feel free to post whatever you would like, get it out, feel better. I love ya.
And I have to go to bed now! I'm pooped! B